Friday, May 29, 2009
Love comes around, and it knocks you down
Song listening to: Pretty Willie - Four walls
Love is a difficult topic to define, especially since it can be confused with so many other emotions. Infatuation, blindness, physical attraction, fascination, and even just temporary craze for ones comfort. But betrayal is usually complimented by mistaken identity of love. There are many reasons why some one may get hurt in a relationship. Being immature, dating the wrong person, rushing into things too fast, reading the wrong message, being cheated on... All of these reasons stated have been shown in my life within the last month. Though not just dealing with my experiences. But i think this month has been the most love struck/broken month ive been through in a while.
Being immature: My friend, well more like an acquaintance, well actually my exes baby momma, recently broke up with K, my ex. He is giving up his responsibility of taking care fo his child, and is now stating that it isnt his kid and wants to recieve blood tests to make sure it is his child. I know you may feel this is not immature, but when you supposedly spent so much time with your kid, bought your child so many things, and so on, all of a sudden becasue you found a next "side ting", you just all of a sudden say i need an excuse to forget about WHATS REALLY IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE.
dating the wrong person: My friend, R, recently dated A... And she really liked him at first, but overtime she realized he was the wrong person. He was lazy, always made her come to his area when planing a get together date. PLUS he didnt treat her too well. I think there relationship was based on attraction. Basically she got bored, thus she dated the worng person. AS I SAID FROM THE BEGINNING!
Rushing into things too fast: my friend M, is falling for this guy , M, LOL ..there both M's. M&M. sorry anyways. They rushed into thigns. At first they were just playing around, being lovey dovey and shit, but hey havent evern started to date and they already have done 'everything' one could really do when your in a relaionship.So basically whats the point of being in a relationship if now, theres nothing that will change except for having a title. Basically, nothing to grow on
Reading the wrong message: Long story short, the guy i like, who likes me (i think...), gave the wrong message to some one else. So this next girl thought he liked her, but he says he doesnt. I dunno who is the wrong doer in this situation. LONG STORY. Way too much to get into without exposing everyone hard. Im not that much of a bitch, well at least not at the moment.
Being cheated on: Self explanitory, i got cheated on by K, with M.. his baby momma. Life goes on... I like some one else now:)
So in the end, i learned things from all there situations and from my past experiences... Not only that, but my dad gave me a useful tip, that seems so obvious, but it had never came o my mind.
He said " Melanie, your first wrong in this situation was dating him when he just broke up with some one. I am sorry to say, but that is almost like a rebound girl. because obviously if a guy (or girl) is going through difficulties with one another and they are bored of there lover, then thay will want something brand new. When they find something so amazing, so different, and some one they "think" they care about, they willl want you so much, but temporarily. Until they realize that they miss that person and you were just a replacement. IN THE END, always give a person at least six months after there break up so that you know definatly that they are through with there ex... TAKE MY DADS ADVICE> LOL
finishing song : silk - more
Love is a difficult topic to define, especially since it can be confused with so many other emotions. Infatuation, blindness, physical attraction, fascination, and even just temporary craze for ones comfort. But betrayal is usually complimented by mistaken identity of love. There are many reasons why some one may get hurt in a relationship. Being immature, dating the wrong person, rushing into things too fast, reading the wrong message, being cheated on... All of these reasons stated have been shown in my life within the last month. Though not just dealing with my experiences. But i think this month has been the most love struck/broken month ive been through in a while.
Being immature: My friend, well more like an acquaintance, well actually my exes baby momma, recently broke up with K, my ex. He is giving up his responsibility of taking care fo his child, and is now stating that it isnt his kid and wants to recieve blood tests to make sure it is his child. I know you may feel this is not immature, but when you supposedly spent so much time with your kid, bought your child so many things, and so on, all of a sudden becasue you found a next "side ting", you just all of a sudden say i need an excuse to forget about WHATS REALLY IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE.
dating the wrong person: My friend, R, recently dated A... And she really liked him at first, but overtime she realized he was the wrong person. He was lazy, always made her come to his area when planing a get together date. PLUS he didnt treat her too well. I think there relationship was based on attraction. Basically she got bored, thus she dated the worng person. AS I SAID FROM THE BEGINNING!
Rushing into things too fast: my friend M, is falling for this guy , M, LOL ..there both M's. M&M. sorry anyways. They rushed into thigns. At first they were just playing around, being lovey dovey and shit, but hey havent evern started to date and they already have done 'everything' one could really do when your in a relaionship.So basically whats the point of being in a relationship if now, theres nothing that will change except for having a title. Basically, nothing to grow on
Reading the wrong message: Long story short, the guy i like, who likes me (i think...), gave the wrong message to some one else. So this next girl thought he liked her, but he says he doesnt. I dunno who is the wrong doer in this situation. LONG STORY. Way too much to get into without exposing everyone hard. Im not that much of a bitch, well at least not at the moment.
Being cheated on: Self explanitory, i got cheated on by K, with M.. his baby momma. Life goes on... I like some one else now:)
So in the end, i learned things from all there situations and from my past experiences... Not only that, but my dad gave me a useful tip, that seems so obvious, but it had never came o my mind.
He said " Melanie, your first wrong in this situation was dating him when he just broke up with some one. I am sorry to say, but that is almost like a rebound girl. because obviously if a guy (or girl) is going through difficulties with one another and they are bored of there lover, then thay will want something brand new. When they find something so amazing, so different, and some one they "think" they care about, they willl want you so much, but temporarily. Until they realize that they miss that person and you were just a replacement. IN THE END, always give a person at least six months after there break up so that you know definatly that they are through with there ex... TAKE MY DADS ADVICE> LOL
finishing song : silk - more
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